Weekend Adventures of a Fruit Fly...

I am a fruit fly...by urban dictionary definition that means: An attractive female who hangs around gay males. The same as a fag hag but attractive. I went out saturday afternoon to meet up with my gay boyfriend and some of his friends at a bar downtown that is pet friendly. I think it's good to socialize sydney so she is good around people. This is when the trouble began with the roommate again, she went off and did her own thing and called me just as I was getting downtown with Syd, inviting me to tailgate and go to a football game. Unfortunately I could not since I had the dog so I told her I would see her later we were planning to go line dancing that night. Well, that never happened for me. I had every intention of going but ended up going to another bar with the group and had to take care of my gay boyfriend (he got a little tipsy and I needed to make sure he didn't try to drive). By the time that was accomplished it was too late for me to go to the country bar. I felt bad that I could not make it but to make me feel even worse I received a hateful text that said don't even bother saying your coming if your not fucking going to show up. So on Sunday it was back to the silent treatment at the house. Acutally back track I was already in the doghouse because my ex B came over Saturday to see where I had moved, to meet Sydney and to go to brunch. I was told that if I let Sydney out to walk her around the front because B was not allowed in her room because she thinks he is scum. (we have to cut through her room to get to the backyard) B and I had a good brunch and we talked about us and what went wrong because he doesn't think he did anything wrong. I had the guts to tell him and since he was sober for once I think it sunk in a little that he did not treat me properly. I believe in maintaining a friendship with people I have dated, whether that is wrong or right, that is just who I am. B and I went through a very major thing together that I am still trying to deal with on a daily basis I just don't really show that it still bothers me and unfortunately I feel that he is the only one who truly understands because it affected him as well.

I went back out yesterday to meet back up with the gays, I have such a great time with them! There are a couple of other fruit flies in the group and we are all laughing all the time, It's nice to be around a different group of people at times too. I realize that I was wrong in not showing up to the country bar but I can't change how the night played out, so once again I am an asshole.